Note 1: Buku Ayah Juara (7 Hari Menjadi Ayah Qur’ani)

Page 38.

Nabi Ismail, bayi yang begitu didambakan dan didapatkan dengan susah payah, kini harus ditinggalkan bersama sang ibu di negeri tak bertuan yang kering dan tandus. Tiga kali Siti Hajar bertanya, “Lima hajartana?” (Mengapa engkau tinggalkan kami berdua?). Tapi akhirnya Siti Hajar tersadar setelah melihat suaminya tak jua kunjung menjawab, dan ia pun bertanya dengan penuh keyakinan, “Allahu amaraka bi hadza?” (Apakah Allah yang memerintahkanmu?). Ketika Nabi Ibrahim mengangguk mengiyakan tanpa menoleh lagi sedikit pun maka semakin mantap lah keyakinan Siti Hajar. “Idzan la yudhayyiana syaian,” (Kalau begitu, Allah tak akan menyia-nyiakan sedikit pun). Sebuah percakapan lambang kesuksesan suami istri dalam memahami perjuangan.

Advertisements

H-13 Perbanyak Istighfar

Saat-saat mendekati hari H gini banyak macam-macam pikiran¬†yang muncul. I can’t describe it here because it is very personal. I guess when you are preparing your marriage, mixed thought is a very common thing. We just have to handle it correctly. And the solution is perbanyak istighfar. Ingat sama Sang Pencipta. Banyakin berdo’a supaya apa yang direncanakan bisa lancar, berkah, dan penuh ridho. Itu yang sedang gw lakuin sekarang. Kalau pikiran aneh datang, cepet-cepet istighfar. Kalau readers punya cara ampuh lain, tolong share di sini! Thanks..

Welcome 2016

I barely celebrate a new year since I stayed in Korea for the last 4 years. Nobody could tell the life. I didn’t expect for staying here this long. My first new year celebration was 2012. Then 2013, 2014, 2015, and now 2016.

To put it simple, I do expect more this year. More productive in any possible way. Life and work. I am planning to stop using Instagram and Twitter. I stopped using Path several months ago. Well, never be a fan of this app tho. I also stop tweeting. Get bored, basically. As for IG, I find myself looking unuseful information every time I open my account. So, i choose to stop it. Can i promise myself to become more productive? Can I not access these apps before I make myself better in any possible way? There is only one thing that I want to do this year and I have to do it whatever it takes: I want to be a better man for my life, my family, and my work. I want to do more good deeds and lessen my bad habit. So, hope this year will become a better year for me and my family. 

On my plate

Buanyak banget dah yang harus dipikirin dan diberesin. Dasar tipikal orang yang suka mikir, kondisi kayak gini bikin kepala penuh. Homework, final test, project, and research. Kata senior, yang namanya PhD itu ya melatih mengatur waktu atas seabrek kegiatan. Bener juga! Belum lagi urusan pribadi dan keluarga. Uwalaahh.. Ini buanyak banget dah. Dijalanin aja biar ga kerasa dah. Kalau dipikirin pasti ga habis-habis. Kasih senyum dulu biar semangat! ūüôā